Witchy Whims

Witchy discussions center around using the metaphysical to fuel the physical neglecting the acknowledgement of the reverse. In no type of magic is this more apparent than in sex magic. Sex magic channels erotic pleasure for metaphysical power to bring about change in our conscious and unconscious world.

A misinformed belief of sex magic is that the union of divine feminine and masculine is necessary. That this union can only be accomplished through heterosexual intimacy. However, each of us is equipped with both the divine feminine and divine masculine energy, so this view is misinformed.

MODERN DAY SEX MAGIC RESOURCES

The occult and the orgasm were unavoidably linked by the Church’s undying distaste. Eroticism played a key role in the witch hunts. People saw fornicators and amorous women as signs of the devil’s influence. One of the most sexually explicit of the accused witches was Lady Alice Kyteler. When her belongings in her home were searched “ergot ointment” was found.

Use resulted in some undesirable side effects which individuals found were lessened when taken by the skin. The most effective topical method being through areas such as the armpits or genitalia. Women were able to feel the effects of the drug by rubbing the ointment on a broomstick edge and using it for insertion. (This is where we get the idea that witches ride broomsticks). We can see how the church was able to claim that the two were linked after incidents such as this.

In modern-day witch circles and resources, we find that sex magic is often credited to Tantra, Aleister Crowley, and Ordo Templi Orientis or (O.T.O.).. The O.T.O believed sex magic to be their “supreme secret” practice, which I personally find egotistical and small-minded because if we’re being honest, they were far from the first to think sex felt magical. The order developed a degree system of magic divided into groups called triads. The final triad was the degrees of sex magic which originally fell into heteronormative scope until the addition of homoerotic levels – an addition said to be made by Aleister Crowley.

Unlike most other discussions of Sex Magic, Crowley’s Sex Magic was heavily influenced by homosexuality. He identified sex as one of the strongest sources of magic and believed sexual activities that were deemed “immoral” brought about the strongest powers: homosexuality, masturbation, and fornication. Although he is still a problematic voice (especially due to his constant cultural appropriation), many of our modern resources are linked to him, so we need to do extensive deconstruction on all of the resources including those about sex magic. To this, you are probably thinking, “sex is for everyone”, which obviously that’s how you got here, but the development of sex magic is a little more complex.

DECONSTRUCTING SEX MAGIC 

Just like all forms of magic, sex magic requires deconstruction. Two sources of deconstruction in sex magic are queerness and culture. The majority of writers on sex magic are white men who feel way too comfortable speaking about other cultures they are not apart of. Regardless if they had “proper teachers” using chakras and tantra as a basis for western sex magic is unprecedented. If we are going to create a new resource for sex magic that is open practice, it should not be based in practices that are attached to religion. We can not simply remove them from their context and use what we choose.

Although many of the sex magic resources I have found have admittedly been written by heterosexual men, Crowley’s (who as I stated previously had huge influence on modern day sex magic resources) sexuality remains a mystery. Although he incorporated the “homoerotic” into sexual practice, he did so without properly removing the stigma from it. Homosexuality was seen by him as an act of rebellion rather than an innate identity that is still capable of love and connection. When we discuss the magic of sex we must do so without stigmatization or judgment towards other’s sexualities.

BEGINNING OUR DISCUSSION OF SEX MAGIC

There are a few key points to keep in mind in our discussion of sex magic:

1. Although sex is open practice, certain rituals and applications of sexual magic belong to cultures that are not our own and should not be removed from their original context. These are not necessarily closed but doing so improperly is cultural appropriation.
2. The use of sex magic involves transforming physical sexual energy into a metaphysical source that can be used in magical endeavours.
3. Sexual energy can be created in all sexual contexts: Queer, Heterosexual, Homoerotic, and Asexual.
4. Sex Magic is still a form of witchcraft and requires the proper research, groundwork, and protections before you begin.

Our discussion of sex magic will encompass many aspects of sexual energy and will include conversations on masturbation, sexual intimacy, asexuality, sexual safety, and consent. We can not have a discussion on sex magic without first discussing the latter two.